
We should all realize that when we call for schools to freeze or lower tuition it often means that those who can least afford it have to sacrifice a little more. But the fact of the matter is that very few of us can afford any increases.
Other schools are considering deferring some obligations rather than simply writing them off, in the hopes that some parents will be able to make the payments in the future when they are in better financial situations. That's also a good idea though I doubt too many parents will make those payments in the future especially if their kids graduate before their situations improve.
While asking for all of this documentation (W-2's, mortgage statements, etc.) is necessary, I think the schools really need to visit the houses of the people applying. Papers don't always tell the whole story. They should see how people are actually living. I think for the amount of money we are talking about its worth the investment in manpower.
Michael · 671 weeks ago
Guest · 671 weeks ago
this $100 doesn't make a difference to the full pays nor does it make tuition more affordable for anyone else who can't afford the thousands in tuition in the first place.
seems that by cutting this $100, they just left their budget with an 80K hole ( ~800 students x $100).
As for inspecting houses, I am not sure about that. I think the people gaming the system is a such smaller percentage than you think. Besides, you can learn quite a bit about families from facebooks - who's going away for vacation, who got a new car, who got an ipad etc.
guest · 671 weeks ago
ClooJew · 671 weeks ago
Sad situation · 671 weeks ago
ClooJew · 670 weeks ago
If so, that's probably a good thing.
Yeshiva_Dad 69p · 670 weeks ago
Even if it's only 1 person gaming the system to the tune of $5,000 per year, which could be $50,000 by the time their last one graduates, isn't that worth a few hours of an admins time going around to people's houses? And the ones that are hiding their incomes are probably not boasting about it on facebook.
Guest · 670 weeks ago
I'd rather have my admins working to improve my child's educational programs than playing sleuth for the minority of people trying to steal from a jewish institution.
Families need to provide a crazy amount of supporting documentation. are they forging their credit card bills and bank statements?
Yeshiva_Dad 69p · 670 weeks ago
Miami Al · 670 weeks ago
Just like tax compliance is already pretty high in this country, the higher the rate of an audit, the higher the compliance, it's a CBA from there.
JS (hello) · 670 weeks ago
So, what exactly are you going to uncover by checking out people's homes? The implication is that someone on scholarship should be living in squalor - their house dirty and unkempt, the cupboards bare, no "luxury" items to be seen. I think that's absurd, but also most of these "luxury" items are pretty cheap and aren't really so luxurious. Is an HDTV a luxury when around 2/3 of households have one? When you can buy a top-end 50" plasma screen for around $600?
Even if the school could collect all these funds, I doubt it would amount to much. The families will just put the assets somewhere else the schools can't touch it - a 401(k), a 529, charity, home maintenance, etc.
Besides, do you really want to live in such an authoritarian community? Yeshivas already dictate so much of our lives, do you really want to invite them to take over yet another area of our lives?
ClooJew · 670 weeks ago
I'm baffled. Please list some examples.
JS (hello) · 670 weeks ago
Also, parents are often expected to live their lives in a way matching the hashkafa of the school. It's more extreme in Chareidi schools, obviously, but I would still think a mother would doesn't cover her hair and wears pants would "dress the part" when coming to a school event or meeting with teachers. There are other examples of this as well.
Does that clarify what I meant?
guest · 670 weeks ago
Bankruptcy in this Country is even more humane than these people. The US Trustee doesn't make home inspections, they just ask for tax returns and pay stubs and mortgage statements. They don't go into houses having inspections.
Plus the taam rah, that all of this leaves in the mouths of parents, and our young kids, probably has more negative effects than much of the positive stuff a yeshiva education presents. The viciousness and public flogging of those who are not as fortunate does not reflect well on our community as a whole. The attitude of "if you can't afford it don't live here", smacks with heartlessness and lack of compassion and lack of understanding.
Michael · 670 weeks ago
So I should be able to move from BC to 5th Ave and then demand that Ramaz give me a scholarship?
Guest · 670 weeks ago
Teaneck isn't as expensive. housing prices have dropped significantly over the past 3-4 years. You can get a modest 3 bed room 2 bath house for $325 or less in some parts of town.
realist · 670 weeks ago
Well, we are all commanded to give charity, and I do believe that the Orthodox Jewish community is more generous than most. However, I don't believe that scholarship committees asking questions are "public flogging". If you need assistance, it is available. However, why can't schools ascertain what the income and assets of the scholarship recipient really are? Believe me, schools are genrally running at deficits as it is. If someone cheats the system, that means either everyone else pays more, or (in some charedi schools), teachers do not get paid. It's a big problem.
realist · 670 weeks ago
Finally, I don't think the concept of "If you can't afford it, don't live here" is wrong conceptually. Look, Teaneck is expensive even without tuition. Our property taxes and shul dues are quite high. Don't you think it would be better for a family to choose to live in say, a Passaic or Staten Island and be able to afford tuition as opposed to living here and getting a scholarship? I can understand people who God forbid lose their jobs and need temporary assistance. However, for someone to make a concious decision to live in a community that would put them on constant heavy scholarship (while they could live elsewhere) seems unfair to everyone else. Anyone disagree?
Wait a minute · 670 weeks ago
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Wait a minute · 670 weeks ago
If one walks into a shop to buy an engagement ring and all rings are priced beyond 14,000, when one's budget is 5k or 7k, the wise man shops elsewhere - for choices. However, in Teaneck, for the vast majority of famlies, there is no real variety, locally, unless one wants to go to PS, etc
ann · 670 weeks ago
Yeshivat He'Atid is $9K, which is $3K less than YNJ and $5K less than the others. Even more actually since it doesn't charge all the extra fees - building, dinner, registration, etc.
So how can you say there are no less expensive options?
Carol · 670 weeks ago
Wait a minute - despite what is written on all the blogs, yeshivat he'atid has an actual budget which is planned out for at least 10-15 years. That budget does not rely upon donations for all those years as you seem to be saying. But Yeshivat He'atid is only up to 1st grade now, so parents with older children do not really have a cheaper, in area, option.
Yeshiva_Dad 69p · 670 weeks ago
I'm curious to know what you know about He'atids long term budget. Can you share it with us or is it still a secret?
Also Yavneh does fundraising events all the time. It doesn't just rely on tuition for scholarships.
-YD
ann · 670 weeks ago
Yeshiva_Dad 69p · 670 weeks ago
-YD
ann · 670 weeks ago
Guest · 670 weeks ago
Perhaps if they fill the classes to the capacity their consultants say can be handled by this technology, tuition will stay low. You will need to decide if 30-35 kids with 1 teacher is adequate.
ann · 670 weeks ago
Carol · 670 weeks ago
Guest - not sure where you get 30-35 kids from.
Guest · 670 weeks ago
Michael · 670 weeks ago
Yeshiva_Dad 69p · 670 weeks ago
-YD
Guest · 670 weeks ago
I am not spreading lies. Why don't you email him and ask him to explain it to you.
Carol · 670 weeks ago
realist · 670 weeks ago
I find this rather strange.
ann · 670 weeks ago
Yeshiva_Dad 69p · 670 weeks ago
Yavneh was pretty open about their budget at the Q&A event they had in December. See my post about that here: http://yeshivasanity.blogspot.com/2011/12/how-doe...
I know there have been discussions at Ma'ayanot about publishing their budget though they haven't done so yet.
If there's nothing to hide I don't see any reason to keep them secret.
ann · 670 weeks ago
wait a minute · 670 weeks ago
Also, many have told me 9k is tight for them as well...but if there was a PK - 8 program, it would make many people in town much happier and able to attend.
model v budget · 670 weeks ago
LOI · 670 weeks ago
How many 100-200k chumps ever tell their kids they can't afford something (a toy, a reallly expensive car, an expensive vacation)? I suspect that many parents avoid explaining to kids that even successfull people can't afford everything they "want".
Personallly, I have no problem saying it to my kids as it's a life truth - no one can afford everything (obviously billionaires excluded). Those on scholarship might not be able to afford Teaneck and those not on scholarship might not be able to afford living in a large apartment in the upper east side. But it starts wi the question - do you tell your kids this or are they brought up expecting to have minimum "stuff" regardless of income and life choices?
ann · 670 weeks ago
Avi Greengart · 670 weeks ago
Miami Al · 670 weeks ago
When money was tight, they were told that. When it loosened up, we've done what Avi does, tell them that we don't choose to spend money on it.
Sometimes, we're in a store, and my kids start asking for candy. I say no, I get a "is it Kosher?" I know plenty of people that lie and tell their kids no, but I tell them the truth, either, "no, it's not kosher, or "it is Kosher, but I'm choosing not to buy it for you."
Life is about choices, I'm open with my kids about the decisions I make. When they complain, I tell them that when they are adults, they'll get to make the decisions.
It's called parenting.